But now thus says the Lord,
“Fear not, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you by name, you are mine."
Isaiah 43:1 (ESV)
"I have called you by name." This is a statement that our Heavenly Father made to Israel through the prophet Isaiah, but it expresses well an aspect of our adoption into His family by grace. He knows and loves us personally and deeply despite our brokenness. He knows our name, in fact, He has given us His name through adoption. We are His.
That experience should shape the heart of every believer in every Gospel-of-Grace oriented congregation, and then express itself towards the new people that the Father brings to our doorstep each Sunday. At Christ Covenant, we call it "welcoming people well," and it is something we are mindful of. Are we welcoming visitors in a way that they feel welcomed? A way that is appropriate to them? Not forcing our selves or our agenda on them, but available, responsive and welcoming. Thinking about their needs as a visitor before our needs as regulars.
A component of that is learning, remembering and speaking to a person by name. It makes a difference, we try to be diligent about getting names and faces connected, remembered and recognized. I was struck by the importance of knowing a person's name by a blog post in "Church Volunteer Daily" that I reproduce here in full: